Author: robinworgull

Don’t dim your light by playing with darkness:

Many people question the upset around them but fail to realize they were the ones who unknowingly invited it.  I’m drawn to 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 ” Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. Abstain from all appearances of evil.”

Keep in mind, some things are disguised to appear innocent but hold darkness. There are family board games that allow you to call on spirits. If we are to follow scripture then these board games don’t belong near our family, whether they appear innocent or not. Sometimes we look at the maker of the games and assume they are innocent to play, but wisdom screams, back away.

We also must take an inventory on the books we read, movies watched, the certain company we keep and even the interests we hold. All these areas that appear as innocent or harmless entertainment, could be surrounding us with darkness.

We are called to stand out like a light to a dark world. Sometimes, we are the ones dimming our light by the things we partake in.  With that being said, if we are to abstain from all appearances of evil, then we must not partake in anything that sets us up to be deceived. Things that hold the appearance of evil often can be misleading. Certain movies may hold demons, or witchcraft that was slipped into a suspense movie or even a book. Certain people who dabble in sorcery, paranormal activity or destructive behavior such as drinking, drugs, or crime; may be carriers of darkness and just being around them;  can have us taking on their darkness on as our own.  People who read horoscopes or have tarot cards read are literally opening to the door to the enemy, and inviting darkness to attack them, in areas they will be least suspecting it. Those areas normally will be something that they held closest to their hearts such as their marriage, children, job, finances or health. These will be the areas hit first, that dark spirits like to attack in. They attack closest to the heart,  in order to get the person knocked down emotionally, physically, or spiritually;  which allows them greater access to inflict greater turmoil,  due to the fact the person is vulnerable,  due to the emotional instability caused by the original attack.

As believer’s we must keep in mind, light and darkness can’t exist in the same room as one will overpower the other. We must not invite darkness to dim our light. We must use wisdom in the activities we partake in and create a barrier against darkness, by abstaining from all appearances of evil.

Blessings,

Robin Worgull

Recognizing Unhealthy Love:

Some of you reading may have been abused at the hands of family members or a trusted individual. It was not until you grew older did you realize this was wrong. I’m not only referring to sexual abuse but all forms including verbal, emotional,  and physical. In order for people to abuse, they must first deceive the one they are trying to get to conform to whatever it is they want them to do. They begin manipulating in an attempt to gain control. Once control is held they begin using fear to continue controlling in order to further abuse. Some people have been unable to move due to such fear felt. They continue to hold fear even long after the abuse is over. Many hold guilt, shame, and question if it was their fault or not. This leads to self-doubt, low self-esteem, lack of confidence, trust and intimacy issues later on in life. Numerous women have shared their past with me and those who carried insecurities and shame long-term found that they carried these raw emotions into relationships along the way. This created tension due to them placing an undeserved punishment on the men they were involved with and also closely monitoring the man’s every move.

Many people have tried hiding their past from their partner, but those fears surface in the most sensitive times. So much so, that some of you question why relationships ended when you thought they were going so well. Many people who have been abused at a young age learn quickly how to hide and pretend everything is okay when in all actuality it is not. Certain things still trigger the memory of their past such as tone of voice, body language or something such as a certain smell. They may try to find instant relief such as through alcohol, drugs or promiscuous behavior. However,  in the end, they find themselves feeling unworthy of being loved. Love is foreign to them due to what they were exposed too.

They find themselves in relationships that require them to meet challenges or overcome obstacles in order to be loved. This may have been an unhealthy survival skill they learned at a young age such as pleasing those around them by doing things for them. Let me remind you that not all survival skills learned are healthy.

If you are in a relationship where challenges must be met in order for you to feel loved, you will be emotionally and physically exhausted while still feeling unfulfilled and looking for your needs to be met. More than likely your needs won’t be met due to you being with someone who doesn’t truly love you. They may love how you make them feel but if they truly loved you, there would be no obstacles to overcome or challenges to be met in order for them to return back what you offered first. If someone is okay allowing you to suffer emotionally in order to be with them, that is not healthy love but rather an unhealthy love. If time in the bedroom leaves you feeling used or dirty afterward, then you are not being loved as you should be.

We all carry the knowledge of how things are and my question I leave you with is this…What good is knowledge if you do nothing with the knowledge you hold? I said that to say this, you are worthy of love and your suffering ends as soon as you call the truth of your situation.

Blessings,

Robin Worgull

What exactly are you waiting for?

Many of us know what is expected of us and what we need to be doing but instead of doing what needs to be done, we wait. What are we waiting on?

If we keep waiting for the right moment, the one that feels right, then we lose the moment at hand. Doing what is right often feels wrong.

If we keep looking for a sign or permission from others, to do what is already laid on us to do, then we are guilty of stopping the plans God holds for us to carry out.

If we need the approval of others to feel comfortable doing what God leads us to do, then we better learn real quick to get comfortable being uncomfortable,  because most people don’t hold approval for themselves let alone for anyone else.

Too many people are waiting for the right time, right feeling, right circumstances, or the courage to finally do what needs to be done and is long overdue. There is never a right time or right feeling or even right circumstance we can find ourselves in except, right now. Life is full of chaos and situations are always presenting themselves. Situations such as financial issues, health issues, marital problems, the raising of children, or work-related issues etc.

Those that keep waiting are taking the strength they had left and lost it to the stress of procrastination. When we procrastinate, it is because we don’t truly believe that we were chosen or set apart to live an abundant life promised to us.  We tend to believe others were chosen and a better fit for the job meant for us. Many of us are not walking out our part in God’s plan. We keep looking at everyone around us and think we should be doing what they are doing. We fail to realize they are looking at us and trying to follow what we are doing.

You hold purpose but are purposely avoiding it. I encourage you to get up and quit waiting for the right moment to finally fulfill your purpose. This requires you to quit waiting for approval from those who sugarcoat your ears with sweet words but behind your back are waiting to watch you fall.  They are just going to have to watch you rise.

Those that have to do their calling in fear of what others may say or think, can be found courageous if they simply walk by faith and not by sight.  It does not matter who says or does what to us or against us.  If we are walking in faith, then our concern is on God and his will, not the concern of others who secretly want to see us fall. Don’t allow yourself to be others entertainment by being so concerned with the things they don’t understand about you. People will always speak their minds and give their opinions, but that doesn’t mean the words spoken are truths of who you are.

We answer to God, not to man… This is our greatest reminder that we concern ourselves with the business of God and His plans, over the business of others around us. We would not procrastinate as much if we would mind our own business and not listen to the voices of sabotage around us. God doesn’t use perfect people, he uses those with a willing heart, who have walked the road of brokenness and are willing to share the learned wisdom of the experience with others.  We have to lock it down in our thinking that what God is calling us to do must be done now, not when it is convenient or feels right…

Blessings to each of you overcomers,

Robin Worgull

Are you predetermined not to straddle the fence?

Many of us find ourselves struggling in areas we keep repeating. Those areas can range from relationship issues, financial, health, spiritual, or emotional ups and downs. Sometimes we unknowingly become our own stumbling block trying to be accepted or approved of by others. What we fail to realize is we are in a constant spiritual battle.  There is a battle called spiritual warfare being fought in the unseen realm. The battle is between good and evil fighting for control over us here on earth. Many of us find ourselves disabled in fear or doubt and keep questioning, what’s wrong with me? (There’s nothing wrong with you. You were created exactly as God wanted you to be. You may be responding to the battles coming at you improperly. This would cause situations you encounter to repeat themselves, which creates the fear and doubt you keep experiencing.)

To obtain true discipline in mind, body, and soul, we don’t have the option of straddling the fence. Straddling the fence means to keep one foot in the flesh and one foot in the spirit. To try to walk in the spirit and the flesh only causes a person to war within themselves. Anytime we war within means we battle within ourselves, between partaking in things that are right or wrong. We are supposed to walk upright within the boundaries of biblical principles, not keeping our feet in the world enjoying what it offers. Either we have both feet in or we don’t. Most people play hopscotch, meaning they want to enjoy what the world offers but also want God to deliver them from their troubles they find themselves in.

I take a moment to explain something. Light and darkness can’t exist in the same room. A flicker of candle lights one section of a dark room, but a room full of light holds no darkness within it. Now, think of yourself as the room. Are you full of light or darkness? See, what goes in must come out. If we fill ourselves full of God’s Word and walk within the boundaries he sets for us; he then equips us with the ability to hold our heads up high and walk fearlessly. Yet, if we fill ourselves with what the world offers which is darkness, upset, sorrow, hopelessness,  wickedness and decay, then we fall defeated to the very thing we were enticed by. Why would be enticed to something intended to destroy us? The answer is more simple than you might think. When we were enticed it was because the devil offered something that appeared good, fun, or exciting but not something that appeared dangerous. Keep in mind, we live in a fallen world with fallen people who have fallen away from God because they were deceived by a fallen angel instead.  When the devil presents an opportunity for a person to take part in, he doesn’t allow the person to see the danger that lies ahead. No, he makes the opportunity look beautiful so the person is captivated by beauty instead of what truly is waiting for them. The devil is always looking for doors of opportunity we left open to him unknowingly.

Doors of opportunity we leave open are areas in our lives we keep sinning. People enjoy sin, even the Bible says sin is fun for a time but it also makes it known sin leads to death. We don’t know if death is pertaining to us physically or other areas such as our finances, relationships, etc. What we do know, is the price of sin is death. To the person who keeps having struggle after struggle, self-discipline is mandatory if you want to start living instead of merely existing. (Yes we have people very much healthy who are not living but rather are existing in misery, and have lost the desire to get up and go enjoy life.) John 10:10 reminds us that the thief comes to steal, kill and destroy but Jesus came so we could have life and an abundant one at that.

If you recall, I mentioned spiritual warfare is the battle between good and evil fighting for control over us down here on earth. Many of us have arrows of doubt, fear, depression, anxiety, anger,  and all the other ugly emotions we routinely feel,  raining down on us daily from the unseen realm. You will keep getting knocked down until you begin being predetermined not to straddle the fence. This requires self- discipline and filtering what your five senses are exposed too. (Touch, taste, sight, hearing, and smell.) If you filter properly, then you must not let any part of you touch ungodliness. Don’t taste what the world offers. Keep your sights on things above, not on what’s around you. Stay in the Word of God so you can hear the small, still voice of God pressing directions on your heart. Be vigilant by smelling what you are about to step into. Remember, the smell of upset and danger get stronger the closer you get to them.

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Blessings,

Robin Worgull   (Author of The Conflict Within and The Right- Minded Woman)